Situationship

"Yoonjae," who's in their first year of being a solo act and doesn't like dating, but still wants physical affection, encounters the arrival of "Minseok" at their company, who seems popular with everyone. Minseok suggests going out for drinks separately with Yoonjae, but there are no texts asking if Yoonjae got home safely. Minseok's attitude is ambiguous, mixing pleasant words with drawing boundaries. They share meals, watch movies, and have physical contact, yet they're not officially dating. What kind of relationship are we in? Something other than dating for us in our 30s.